Saturday, August 31, 2013
A little bit of normal
Onward and Upward
Hearts of Harvest
Friday, August 30, 2013
Captain's SK8
Surgery is Finished!
Just in case...
Thursday, August 29, 2013
Surprise... No surgery
Just give me some Milk! Moo, moo, moo, moo...
New Update!!!
Earned his First "No No"
Reach Across Oceans
Do Not Fear
Do Not Fear
BOYD K. PACKER
A few weeks ago our youngest son and his wife and family stopped to see us. The first one out of the car was our two-year-old grandson. He came running to me with his arms outstretched, shouting, “Gwampa! Gwampa! Gwampa!”
He hugged my legs, and I looked down at that smiling face and those big, innocent eyes and thought, “What kind of a world awaits him?”
For a moment I had that feeling of anxiety, that fear of the future that so many parents express to us. Everywhere we go fathers and mothers worry about the future of their children in this very troubled world.
But then a feeling of assurance came over me. My fear of the future faded.
That guiding, comforting Spirit, with which we in the Church are so familiar, brought to my remembrance what I already knew. The fear of the future was gone. That bright-eyed, little two-year-old can have a good life—a very good life—and so can his children and his grandchildren, even though they will live in a world where there is much of wickedness.
They will see many events transpire in the course of their lifetime. Some of these shall tax their courage and extend their faith. But if they seek prayerfully for help and guidance, they shall be given power over adverse things. Such trials shall not be permitted to stand in the way of their progress, but instead shall act as stepping-stones to greater knowledge.
As a grandfather and as one of the Twelve, I will give you some counsel, some caution, and a lot of encouragement. I could do this much better if the grandmother in our family, my wife of 57 years, were standing beside me. Mothers know much more about life than fathers do, but I will do the best I can.
We do not fear the future for ourselves or for our children. We live in dangerously troubled times. The values that steadied mankind in earlier times are being tossed away.
We must not ignore Moroni’s words when he saw our day and said, “Ye [must] awake to a sense of your awful situation” (Ether 8:24).
We cannot take lightly this warning from the Book of Mormon:
“The Lord in his great infinite goodness doth bless and prosper those who put their trust in him … doing all things for the welfare and happiness of his people; yea, then is the time that they do harden their hearts, and do forget the Lord their God, and do trample under their feet the Holy One—yea, and this because of their ease, and their exceedingly great prosperity.
“And thus we see that except the Lord doth chasten his people with many afflictions, yea, except he doth visit them with death and with terror, and with famine and with all manner of pestilence, they will not remember him” (Hel. 12:1–3; emphasis added).
Have you noticed that word terror in that prophetic Book of Mormon warning?
The moral values upon which civilization itself must depend spiral downward at an ever-increasing pace. Nevertheless, I do not fear the future.
World War I ended only six years before I was born. When we were children, the effects of the war were everywhere present. World War II came only 15 years later. And dark clouds were already gathering.
We had the same anxious feelings that many of you do now. We wondered what the future held for us in an unsettled world.
When I was a boy, childhood diseases appeared regularly in every community. When someone had chicken pox or measles or mumps, the health officer would visit the home and place a quarantine sign on the porch or in the window to warn everyone to stay away. In a large family like ours, those diseases would visit by relay, one child getting it from another, so the sign might stay up for weeks.
We could not blockade ourselves inside our homes or stay hidden away to avoid those terrible contagions. We had to go to school, to employment, to church—to life!
Two of my sisters were stricken with very severe cases of measles. At first they seemed to recover. A few weeks later Mother glanced out of the window and saw Adele, the younger of the two, leaning against a swing. She was faint and weak with a fever. It was rheumatic fever! It came as a complication from measles. The other sister also had the fever.
There was little that could be done. In spite of all of the prayers of my parents, Adele died. She was eight years old.
While Nona, two years older, recovered, she had fragile health for most of her life.
When I was in the seventh grade, in a health class, the teacher read an article. A mother learned that the neighbor children had chicken pox. She faced the probability that her children would have it as well, perhaps one at a time. She determined to get it all over with at once.
So she sent her children to the neighbor’s to play with their children to let them be exposed, and then she would be done with it. Imagine her horror when the doctor finally came and announced that it was not chicken pox the children had; it was smallpox.
The best thing to do then and what we must do now is to avoid places where there is danger of physical or spiritual contagion.
We have little concern that our grandchildren will get the measles. They have been immunized and can move freely without fear of that.
While in much of the world measles has virtually been eradicated, it is still the leading cause of vaccine-preventable death in children.
From money generously donated by Latter-day Saints, the Church recently donated a million dollars to a cooperative effort to immunize the children of Africa against measles. For one dollar, one child can be protected.
Parents now are concerned about the moral and spiritual diseases. These can have terrible complications when standards and values are abandoned. We must all take protective measures.
With the proper serum, the physical body is protected against disease. We can also protect our children from moral and spiritual diseases.
The word inoculate has two parts: in—“to be within”—and oculate means “eye to see.”
When children are baptized and confirmed (see D&C 20:41, 43; D&C 33:15), we place an eye within them—the unspeakable gift of the Holy Ghost (see D&C 121:26). With the Restoration of the gospel came authority to confer this gift.
The Book of Mormon gives us the key:
“Angels speak by the power of the Holy Ghost; wherefore, they speak the words of Christ. … Feast upon the words of Christ; for behold, the words of Christ will tell you [and your children as well] all things what ye should do” (2 Ne. 32:3).
If you will accept it in your mind and cradle it in your feelings, a knowledge of the restored gospel and a testimony of Jesus Christ can spiritually immunize your children.
One thing is very clear: the safest place and the best protection against the moral and spiritual diseases is a stable home and family. This has always been true; it will be true forever. We must keep that foremost in our minds.
The scriptures speak of “the shield of faith wherewith,” the Lord said, “ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked” (D&C 27:17).
This shield of faith is best fabricated in a cottage industry. While the shield can be polished in classes in the Church and in activities, it is meant to be handcrafted in the home and fitted to each individual.
The Lord said, "Take upon you my whole atom or, that ye may be able to withstand the evil day, having done all, that ye may be able to stand" (D&C 27:15).
Our young people in many ways are much stronger and better than we [are]. They and we should not be afraid of what is ahead.
Encourage our young people. They need not live in fear (see D&C 6:36). Fear is the opposite of faith.
While we cannot erase wickedness, we can produce young Latter-day Saints who, spiritually nourished, are immunized against evil influences.
As a grandfather who has lived a long time, I counsel you to have faith. Things have a way of working out. Stay close to the Church. Keep your children close to the Church.
In Alma’s day “the preaching of the word had a great tendency to lead the people to do that which was just—yea, it … had more powerful effect upon the minds of the people than the sword, or anything else, which had happened unto them—therefore Alma thought it was expedient that they should try the virtue of the word of God” (Alma 31:5).
True doctrine, understood, changes attitudes and behavior. The study of the doctrines of the gospel will improve behavior quicker than a study of behavior will improve behavior.
Find happiness in ordinary things, and keep your sense of humor.
Nona recovered from measles and rheumatic fever. She lived long enough to benefit from open-heart surgery and enjoyed years of much improved health. Others spoke of her newly acquired energy. She said, “I have a Cadillac engine in a Model T frame.”
Keep your sense of humor!
Do not be afraid to bring children into the world. We are under covenant to provide physical bodies so that spirits may enter mortality (see Gen. 1:28; Moses 2:28). Children are the future of the restored Church.
Put your homes in order. If Mother is working outside of the home, see if there are ways to change that, even a little. It may be very difficult to change at the present time. But analyze carefully and be prayerful (see D&C 9:8–9). Then expect to have inspiration, which is revelation (see D&C 8:2–3). Expect intervention from power from beyond the veil to help you move, in due time, to what is best for your family.
Alma called the plan of salvation “the great plan of happiness” (Alma 42:8; see also 2 Ne. 11:5; Alma 12:25; Alma 17:16; Alma 34:9; Alma 41:2; Alma 42:5, 11–13, 15, 31; Moses 6:62).
Each of us came into mortality to receive a mortal body and to be tested (see Abr. 3:24–26).
Life will not be free from challenges, some of them bitter and hard to bear. We may wish to be spared all the trials of life, but that would be contrary to the great plan of happiness, “for it must needs be, that there is an opposition in all things” (2 Ne. 2:11). This testing is the source of our strength.
As an innocent child, my sister Adele’s life was cruelly interrupted by disease and suffering. She and all the others so taken continue the work of the Lord beyond the veil. She will not be denied anything essential for her eternal progression.
We also lost an infant granddaughter. She was named Emma after my mother. We receive comfort from the scriptures.
“Little children need no repentance, neither baptism. …
“… Little children are alive in Christ” (Moro. 8:11–12).
Remember the Atonement of Christ. Do not despair or count as forever lost those who have fallen to the temptations of Satan. They will, after the debt is paid to “the uttermost farthing” (Matt. 5:26) and after the healing which attends complete repentance takes place, receive a salvation.
Follow the leaders who are called to preside over you, for the promise is given: “If my people will hearken unto my voice, and unto the voice of my servants whom I have appointed to lead my people, behold, verily I say unto you, they shall not be moved out of their place” (D&C 124:45).
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints will go forward “until it has filled the whole earth” (D&C 65:2) and the great Jehovah announces that His work is done (see History of the Church, 4:540). The Church is a safe harbor. We will be protected by justice and comforted by mercy (see Alma 34:15–16). No unhallowed hand can stay the progress of this work (see D&C 76:3).
We are not blind to the conditions in the world.
The Apostle Paul prophesied of “perilous times” in the last days (2 Tim. 3:1), and he warned, “We wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places” (Eph. 6:12).
Isaiah promised, “In righteousness shalt thou be established: thou shalt be far from oppression; for thou shalt not fear: and from terror; for it shall not come near thee” (Isa. 54:14).
The Lord Himself encouraged, “Wherefore, be of good cheer, and do not fear, for I the Lord am with you, and will stand by you; and ye shall bear record of me, even Jesus Christ, that I am the Son of the living God, that I was, that I am, and that I am to come” (D&C 68:6). In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
2004 April General Conference, Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
Wednesday, August 28, 2013
Just Stop Asking...
A Silent Cry
Waiting on Rounds
Tuesday, August 27, 2013
Great Friends
Err on the Side of Caution
A little more like home
The Light in Your Eyes
Friends will talk about you when you're not around
Reality can really cut you down to size
But don't ever lose that light in your eyes
Don't ever lose that light in your eyes
People make you promises they'll never keep
Soon you'll know why people say, talk is cheap
Life resembles one big compromise
But don't ever lose that light in your eyes
Don't ever lose that light in your eyes
Keep on shining, keep on smiling
Don't lose faith and don't lose heart
When you're crying, just keep trying
To remind yourself you're a shining star, yes you are
Somewhere down the line, you'll face the judgment day
When the angels look at you, what will you say?
They've got a way of knowing who qualifies
Just let 'em see that light in your eyes
Don't ever lose that light in your eyes
Keep on shining, keep on smiling
Don't lose faith and don't lose heart
When you're crying, just keep trying
To remind yourself you're a shining star, yes you are
Don't ever lose that light in your eyes
Don't ever lose that light in your eyes
Don't ever lose that light in your eyes"
Monday, August 26, 2013
Where do we go from here
Notes from a Friend
A Prayer for Jake
Perspective
Sunday, August 25, 2013
Thank You
Surgery Complete!
Waiting... ... ...
In good hands. Dr Mohan Reddy
Lucile Packard children's hospital Congenital Heart Disease
Lucile Packard is the children's hospital at Stanford. They are the ones treating Jake for his condition. In the attached link is their explanation of what is happening with Jake's heart. Specifically he has Complex Transposition of the Great Arteries (TGA) with an arterial septal defect and ventricle septal defect (ASD & VSD).
We are so lucky to have such a great hospital treating Jake. (Ranked top 10 in the country). They have been amazing. Everything, from the way we have been treated to the education we have receive while admitted. I came here knowing nothing about what was going. I feel confident they will take the best possible care of my lovely little boy.
http://www.lpch.org/DiseaseHealthInfo/HealthLibrary/cardiac/chd.html
Lets get physical!
Surgery
This is what's about to happen:
He goes in for anesthesia. Once he is under they cut open his chest along the sternum line. Then they will cut the sternum bone to get to the heart.
Once in his heart is bypassed, and his body hooked up to a heart and lung machine to mimic the hearts actions. Then the surgery begins.
They need to stop his heart, then they will sever the two main arteries from his heart. From there then switch their position and reattach them to where they should be. That is when then difficult stuff begins. The blood supply to the heart is provided by the coronary arteries (a bunch if little blood vessels surrounding the heart). All of these little vessels need to be reattached to the pulmonary artery for oxygen secretion.
Part 2 is to close the holes in his heart walls that separate his R and L sides. That will give him a complete 4 chamber heart. That is ready for blood flow and restart.
That's it right!? Kind of. He has a 3% chance of major complication. 40% chance of coming back with an open chest. Small chance he will have a pacemaker and or a machine to help his heart pump blood till it is strong enough to pump on its own. (It needs to be able to pump with enough pressure to circulate him entire body. I major issue because he is 3 weeks.)
Once the surgery is complete and he is signed out of OR and into CVICU (ped- cardiovascular ICU) he is stabilized. That is when we get so see him again.
We are updated every couple hours as to the progress of the surgery. As far as we know he has been successfully put under and surgery has begun. Now it is time to, as they say, hurry up and wait.
God be with you till we meet again!
By his counsels guide, uphold you;
With his sheep securely fold you.
God be with you till we meet again.
Till we meet, till we meet,
Till we meet at Jesus' feet,
Till we meet, till we meet,
God be with you till we meet again.
When life's perils thick confound you,
Put his arms unfailing round you.
God be with you till we meet again.
Keep love's banner floating o'er you;
Smite death's threat'ning wave before you.
God be with you till we meet again.
It's not good bye.
Little Jakers,
How do we say good bye? You have received blessing telling us you will be healed. We have faith in the peace we've received thus far. You are so strong. You have lived miracles! You are so strong to have lived 3 weeks without a link form your body to your lungs. Please continue your strength. We need your spirit in our home. You are in the best place possible. You have dozens of people fasting for you today, who love you and want to hold you when you come home. Please come home to us. May the hands of our team be guided. May your heart have strength. You are loved! Its not goodbye, WE'LL SEE YOU LATER.
"God be with you till we meet again"
We love you,
Mom and Dad
Good News!!!!
Last night when we left the hospital we were told he was on the schedule to have his surgery this morning. Unfortunately anything can change at any time. They have to have an OR, anesthesiologist, full caridio surgical team, and a bed available for recovery. Plus, he has to be at the top of the list. Until he is in the OR anything can change.
We spent all night worried he would get bumped, but there is good news. We called in this morning and HE'S SPOT WAS CONFIRMED!!! It is still no guarantee, but it is a really good sign.
Surgery is scheduled for today at 9:00. We are just getting ready to go in and say good bye now. Please Pray!!!!
Stay strong buddy! Saturday, August 24
Now that most of our tests are done it is all about maintenance. We want his O2 and CO2 levels to stay stable. When we left the hospital last night his #s were really good.
They took out his head IV! It is good to see him without it. The ended up needing it simply because his veins ere so little and that was the only line they couldn't get. Now he has his Pic-line, and that's doing most of what they need. The good news is at this point there is no fluids around his brain, and no signs of infection in his blood stream. He is hooked up to an EEG machine to measure brain activity, and that will be studied be some one on the Nuro team to check for any brain damage that could have occurred during his drop in oxygen levels.
We are so proud of him! He is being really strong.